Sunday, August 17, 2008

What Do You Want? (YOU MUST KNOW)

Well, I had a lot of questions answered now. I knew that I was giving off false signals and I knew that different men were attracted to different signals, but this still left me really confused and not sure how to proceed.

I wasn't sure how to attract the guy I really wanted deep down and I wasn't sure as to what kind of guy I should be attracting.

My 3 1/2 year serious relationship was with a "bad boy" very opposite of me. We had amazing chemistry and we were happy for a very long time, and then it just went wrong. He ended up cheating on me with a slacker chick who was more like him. This really threw me for a loop, because he repeatedly told me he was wildly attracted to my brainy side, and I was oh so excited (and wanted a piece of) his fast life. It never fizzled for me, but it did for him - and it hurt.

After this, I started going for what I thought were polar opposites of my bad boy. Dependable, stable, etc. But, these guys failed too. So, I was at a complete loss.

Then, I found a book called "How To Be Irresistible To A Man" that helped me answer a lot of these questions. And, as it turned out - the answers lied WITHIN ME, NOT WITHIN THE MEN I was attracting.

To find my soul mate and finally get my happily ever after, I'd need to first work on myself! I know it sounds confusing, but bear with me, because this is life changing.